wanna-be adult juggling university+part time job, and very little free time.
Grinding is good in an MMO, it builds the routine and the community.
itās kinda like going to the gym, it takes time and dedication, but with time and effort youāll be rewarded with more then just muscles. think about the connection you make and the community that you helped to build.
Same in an MMO. if you come from RO, youāll know that even experienced players are always creating new characters and, if the community is tight, always keen to helping newcomers.
on EuRO years ago, I joined the community and created my first character, a mage with way too many starting points in str. it took me like 9-10 months just to get from novice to lvl 92 wizard, it was a shitty build, I was experimenting and learning from my mistakes; but I enjoyed every hour of grinding at geographers in einbroch.
it wasnāt easy at all, but I was sharing that experience with other people like me, sometimes I would meet a priest and ask for a heal and buff and then wander off; other times iād meet another mage and just sit down to rec and talk about stuff. I made true connections. it wasnāt a race, but a journey.
and when I hit lvl 90 and got called for my first woe, oh boy how proud and excited i was, coz I put effort in my shitty wizard with that extra 30 STR.
here on ToS i made lvl 40 in like 15-20 hours with a party, so far so good. iām told it becomes more difficult after this point and Iām actually looking forward to that.
Iāll grind more for exp->iāll make more money/loot->iāll pay for new equip/attributes and then jump to the next area, rinse and repeat.
while doing this I enjoy the lore and the people that have been there with me.
Of course if you want a fast story mode without human interaction, donāt play an MMO, just pick up a single player RPG, thereās plenty of them.
But if you want a memorable experience and actual good memories, you gotta take it easy and enjoy the ride.