u a dotka player brah ?
man… totalbiscuit… poor guy 
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@rhedewayhke Hm, psychological might not be the right word. shrug Can’t know the perfect word for every opportunity. Really, a few years back i wouldn’t even been able to write anything reasonable.
Working towards? As i already mentioned, i already “powered through” it once. How to put it ? The core is fine, but the “surroundings” aren’t. Ehh, i can bent my grammar as i want, but i can’t explain it. Or should i say shouldn’t ?
@Melon Maybe there is someone out there who is not quite as outgoing as me. Maybe they have the same problems, and find their solutions here, atleast partly. Who am i to deny that? Thanks again though.
@thebloodsin3 Ikr? He finally beat it… and he is a very good game critic, it would be a loss for every gamer. And no, MOBA’s are not for me. Im actually more of an JRPG guy.
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he beat a curable cancer then another one popped out :\
and the other one is incurable … feelsbadman
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@itzNiko No fairness… nowadays i know, but i didn’t back then. The damage had been done, and it took time to mend. Your post… it has something that strikes me more deeply, but i can’t express it - not even a linguist can.
And i already know that @rhedewayhke is tough love, ha.
@thebloodsin3 We can only hope science walks forward, for his sake, his family, and the gaming community.
…not sure if this will help, but i’ll quit being an anonymous lurker for a bit and try to say my piece 
Your problems are your own, and as such i don’t think any of us can truly understand what importance they have; in this regard, and to the attention of the obnoxious one(s) out here, perhaps is it a bit absurd to decide arbitrarily on a value to someone’s life by deciding that the stuff they have to go through is “more” or “less” important than what an other guy would have to experience, right? I mean, when someone start trying to compare different life experience of different people, and come up with some sort of universal scale of human worth, it usually doesn’t end well ^^
This being said, and though these problems are something personal to you exclusively, i’m pretty sure many of us who read that post can relate a good deal to the stuff you said, and i don’t think i’m wrong when, speaking for all the guys too shy to come out in the light, i sincerely wish you good luck in whatever endeavor you may have; and who knows, maybe the power of our wishes combined will amount to something in the grand scheme of things 
And with that, i’ll be fading back into oblivion, hoping that the way i wrote wasn’t too awkward or verbose…
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Just always remember this words “WE ALL GONNA DIE ANYWAY” so just break that f*ckng wall
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First to note that it’s a good thing you let it out. If not, it’ll be just like a tumor growing inside you. Sure, life is tough, up and downs, and not always with ponies farting rainbows. But what you really need right now is a change. Force yourself to change to a better one and don’t let anyone brings you down. If you think MMO is a good start for you to converse, so be it but still you’ve got to practice in real life (or just webcam with someone). It is to build up confidence when talking and not just blurted out potato. Doesn’t matter if you make mistakes, we all do. Mistakes what makes us even better. Immerse yourself with people. Nothing good will come out if you keep hiding yourself.
I know change won’t happened overnight, and so, take it step by step. If the world are against you, squirt lemon on their eyes. You’ve gotta make a stand for yourself. One of the things that may keep you going is to have something or something that motivates you. Mine, for example, is Artgerm. Back in the day when I was really suck at drawing, people would just bash me a lot and I was really down to the ground. Then again, I said screw it, I do what I want, to the point where I am at today.
Tear down your introvert wall. Don’t let people push you to being isolated, push them back, show them what is worth it. And even you are down, remember, you are never alone in this life because it’s all about looking after each other.
Just keep swimming.
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Don’t be jealous friend… It’s all friends, not her boyfriends
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oh yeah? Okay…
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Good luck dude! Hope you get some assistance tomorrow regarding your social and economical problems. It may be a hard way for you ahead but what’s important is that you are willing and trying to solve your problems rather than running away from it or swinging it away and ignoring it.
Always remember that God is there for you and that little by little, you shall overcome this great wall in your path 
Hey, as one of your ToS guild mate I can’t ignore this.
I’m was and still introvert just like you, sit at computer, play game all days.
After graduated, I didn’t even bother looking for a job until my parents pushed me, and I know for sure, if they didn’t, something will. That’s life.
It stressed me, a lot, for getting out of comfort zone, it will feel like the world is going to end.
But I tell you, the reason I did okay the first week at my office was because of some friends I’ve made online. They were my old guild mate from another MMO, we have each other skype, having a chat group. So when I feel stress about work, I unleashed it there, the good thing is they listened, and I feel better when I heard one of those friend even work for a job not good as me, but he still sound funny and try to relaxed me. (Just like you most of my real life friends is not around me and very far away).
I’m sure there are company doesn’t require all the ‘high-end’ degree, just like the company I got my first job, all they required is decent english skill and a bit knowledge about gaming industry, and hell, they still have the famous name in mobile gaming industry.
I’m sure hope you will get something from your employment agency, and trust me, everyone will go through this stage, as they entering ‘real life’, some are ready, some will have to be. Just get settled and come back to this world soon, 1 or 2 years will fly so fast.
Don’t be afraid, it’s just another school you are entering without knowing it except this school will throw you homework without telling you what to do.
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Coming back to see all these positive comments and helpful community members.
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Well, I wonder if anyone in the last 78 posts has done the tough love version.
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Find a partner to live for. Or something.
Being introverted is a challenge, not some all-encompassing impossible wall that stops you from finding close friends or a partner. -
Your problem isn’t that you’re introverted, from what you’ve said.
It’s that you’re a self-pitying and self deprecating. Have some confidence.
Can’t muster any? Find out how. Do that. -
Stop being a wimp. It’s fine if you’re shy and private. Don’t be a wimp, though.
(note : do not confuse being a wimp for cowardice. cowardice is acceptable.)
4. You can take all the ‘advice’ from another thousand people, but if you don’t pull yourself together, none of it will do anything to help your circumstance. Get off this thread and do something.
I will not reply to anything quoting this post without a better reason than “because I think you’re wrong”.
All replies to such and lower may consider my response to them as “Okay.”
p.s. Good luck.
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I have to strongly disagree with this part.
Living for another person is unhealthy and never works.
You have to live for yourself and be happy with how you are first.
Only then it makes sense to even think about having a partner.
You can’t be so selfish to expect of someone else to give you affection that you deny yourself.
Following your advice would lead anyone that follows it to an unhealthy or one-sided relationship.
That’s surely not gonna help much with boosting confidence.
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