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In-game sexual harassment. Until when?

I’d like to make an open report agaisnt the player Duaki, who have been sexually harrasing me on [SA]Silute server, and how IMC doesnt do much against harassment.
First of all, i don’t speak english or portuguese very well.
I was thinking if i should post this on the forum, or not. To be honest, i was afraid of “what the people would say” but something happened today, and i don’t care anymore. I don’t think i deserve this, i think no one deserves this…i’m sure, more of one person lives this in this game, but i really want to let them know and think, IMC do something for the people who lives and suffer from this?
I don’t do it only for myself, i do it for all who suffers from this.

I used to make jokes and fun with Duaki, but on 2016-11-16 after i joke with him, he started to become more agressive with me, as you can all see on the following printscreens. Just to make things clear, we were not friends.
He started to say really agressive things, asking me nudes and linking fake porn websites with my nickname on shout chat, completely ignoring what people would think of that, knowing that no one would do anything against him because, you know, “man always do this, he must be just playing with you, its not a big deal, no one is going to take him serious, you can just block him and/or ignore him” But guess what, you can’t simply ignore and let it happen when he actually goes deeper and find your real life name and use it against you.

2016-11-16

On this picture, he says “Go suck Myz’s ■■■■ your son of a bitch” and links a fake porn website with my nickname on it.

Here he says "Take Myz out of the PC and go suck his ■■■■"

And if you still can’t see what he is doing as sexual harassment, take a look at this, this screenshot was taken on the same day.

I decided, then, to make a ticket and report him, but i had to create another account to do so.

And another ticket

2016-11-29, two weeks after the first ticket, a GM meeting happens, i asked GM Peach “What IMC thinks about harass?” and the GM “well, the harass…” and kept like 30 seconds thinking, before answering, and then i say “The sexual harass” and Peach says “Oh…well, my collegue GM Durian will whisper you”.
I explained my case, she looked at the ticket, and said “yes we have your tickets and he already have 7 days muted”.
And… thats it. That’s all that IMC could do at the moment, 14 days for a 7 days mute on a sexual harassment report. It doesnt seem they care much about it, thinking that muting someone would be a fitting measure for thing kind of situation. As if they were punishing someone for using bad words, and not actually for toxic behavior.

On 2016-12-09, after his mute finishes, he sends me this via whispers : “Go suck Myz’s ■■■■, tell him to get out of the pc and put his ■■■■ on you, show your big tits your fat slut” "Tell myz to take his tired ■■■■ from the pc and fo ■■■■ you, you slut"

He didnt stopped then, he kept stalking me
On 2016-12-27 he finds out my real life name, and decides to shout it, just to let me know that he knows it now.

So i send a third ticket, and this is their answer:

And i keep sending them more ticket, to know what happened to the last ticket i sent, and this was their answer, they havent done anything since then.


2017-01-17 , after a guild war, he and his friends decided to mock me by calling me fat, and saying on the last printscreen “report, oohhh i’m so scared”. And that was what make me decide to post this on the forums.



It’s been more than a month, IMC didn’t did anything after that, while the guy who kept sexually harassing me goes unpunished, sticking with his friends to mock me about how IMC didnt and don’t do anything against those kind of people, and i’m sure i’m not the only one who passes through this on this game.
I want everyone to know what Duaki does, because IMC isn’t doing much about it, i’m tired of passing through this, and feeling like i can’t play this game properly because people attack me and aren’t punished. Feeling like i don’t know what to do when someone goes to find out my real life name, and keep harassing me.
And i hope that, with that, other people also have strenght and courage to report the people who makes them feel like i feel right now, and maybe IMC do something about it, and give them the punishment they deserve for threatening us with lies and other awful thing.
Will people keep closing their eyes and do nothing about those things, when they happen in shout chat? Will their friends continue to help them ‘making fun of’ victims, even after they know what they are doing? Will IMC keep treating those people like children using bad words, and muting them, instead of actually punishing them? Until when, people will keep standing by and watching those things happen in front of them, and do nothing to help the victims, and in worst case scenario, helping them creating a more toxic community without acknowledging that their 'jokes’and passivity actually sustain those kind of behavior?
I’m sick of this, already.

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Sadly that behavior is exhibited by about 50% of the male population. There are so many kids online that still live in their mother’s basement, the closet they have ever come to a sexual experience was their grandmother washing their back in the tub until they were 12.

Legit feel bad for you but it happens nonstop, people think someone is a girl and just go full creep-stalker mode, sadly though they arent going to do anything to him. They will actually ban you now on this account for violating the terms and showing all that.

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I can tell you posting on the forums doesn’t do anything, and witch hunts are not allowed. Sadly your only bet is to keep contacting support because the playerbase can’t do anything for you and forum mods might just censor the post, delete it, or edit information out to protect player identities.

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there’s a button that you can use to mute people

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I would just ignore him or maybe make the server population know that he is a creep. or tell him to stop. or tell him you are a guy irl hah.

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Well since IMC isn’t doing anything to punish in-game harassment, Posting here could be a good thing to garner some support in-game to fight fire with fire. Make him famous for the wrong reason so whenever people see him in-game will spit on him. I’m flying solo in ToS else i would invite me guildmates to join this event.

Hello, and thank you for bringing this to our attention.

I remember the first case of harassment by the same user and I apologize for the delay in handling the more recent cases. I understand this is quite a serious case.

For now, we applied a 7-day ban to the user in question and sent them a warning via GM message. I know this may not seem like much, considering how grave their actions are; but do let us know if you receive any other kind of harassment from this user and they will be permanently banned.

Again, sorry for the trouble.

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Op i really feel sorry about your situation, being stalked by just a creep without a cell brain and insulting you everyday cuz you are a girl its a sad situation.

What you can do at this point? well posting in forum as Rester said wouldnt do something, probably with this you only fueled more your stalker to keep going because he know now “he really pull every string that trigger you” i used to have a stalker in other game because i was a good friend with a girl was also friend of him so every day he see me online in game was always a reason to insult me.

i did nothing, neither GM contact (as your case only made your stalker to keep going and going) mute him and keep going with my life, because seriously why im going to give so much attention to such retard?

seriously OP, do yo really care a lot about such person ? he is just a random in the internet, his words worth a lot to make you feel like this? give yourself a bit of self steem, give 0 ■■■■■ about whatever he said, even if he keep sending PM just dont read the click quick to general chat or whatever chat and let him keep sending PM, he do it trough shout? just deactivated shout, maybe he can keep going a day, a week, a month, even a year but as long you dont give a ■■■■ whatever he said you would get rid of him.

OP if you really arent the “girl” in the p0rn links such person send trough chat, Why you worry? seriously op, ignore and move foward.

Atleast this time IMC was publically forced to do the right thing for a change, otherwise the OP would have been ignored and fed automated robot tickets for another 2 months.

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It seems like he is in love with you in my honest opinion. This is exactly how a coward’s passion seems like.

sadly his kind of “people” will just move to another person to harass, someone they deem weaker and that they can harass until they find a person that wont report em…


PD: Am happy to see you posting in the forum again, wish next post is on a more friendly thread :blush:

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@dark_lord_miguel Ignoring is not a good solution. If left alone he might target another person or worst, her friend or guildmate. The best and only way is contacting the GM and pray the GM throw a banhammer to the pervert. This also applies in real life situation, if people stalk you day and night, you didn’t leave the stalker alone, you call the cops.

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I was thinking one ;w; i try to make friendly but is hard, ty for all nwn <3

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isso é ridículo demais asoudhasud 7 dias puta q paril

eu acho mt legal a hydrarium deixar td mundo com raiva por serem os melhores mas pqp sujar a imagem de outra pessoa FORA do jogo é inadmissível

deveria ter um gm/staff brasileiro q entenda nosso idioma pra cuidar de casos assim pq vc pode xingar esses caras de otharhios q eles nem vão entender nd

well the ops guild is a known cheaters guild so I kind of wonder if this dude that got banned was just cussing out the cheater and then the op flipped it into a sexual harassment thing. I hope whatever the truth is that justice shall be what it is.

but the pic with the “send me the nudes” appears obvious.

perm ban please gms -.-

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The block feature does wonders.

@Kolalis_owo tu é ridículo, saber xingar no facebook tu sabe né? kkkkkk
tipico user que se faz de inocente, está na guilda certa amigo

@STAFF_Ines Needs to be reviewed all the beginning of the chat, kolalis is famous on facebook for inventing or stirring people

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inventing or stirring people? xDD