"Is it worth to come back?"
Depends.
People are suggesting other games: Do you like those games?
- My opinion: Honestly, I never really liked 3d-ish-too-realistic games. This is one of the reasons I still play. (Even tho the other games have better mechanics and gameplay).
Other type of people suggests: Why don’t you play a proper PvP game if you want to do PvP?
- My opinion: I don’t want to do “pure PvP”. I don’t like MOBA games and stuff like that. I don’t care about being the competitive player trying to win against everyone. But I do want to have fun playing against people sometimes, also, not 24/7. ToS gives this a bit, even tho it’s broken, unbalanced and buggy. That’s why I stopped playing on my archer (too much investment) to play a full CON class, so I have more fun in matches than 1-shot fest and it’s more fun than before (also no unbalanced Missile Hole).
You simply must ask yourself if you will like the game in its current state even tho it have lot of bugs and issues. People who can’t will say for you to move on, people who can and still like the good parts of it will say for you to stay, no one is wrong. It’s just up to the person. If the game wasn’t worth of any player no one would be around.
It’s especially more complicated when people comes and starts suggesting games. I’m one kind of player that would recommend old school/indie games over nowadays 3d-ish and others. Like, I play an old school 2d RPG when I want to play something but don’t want to do things on ToS and for me that game is still most interesting than BDO. And to be honest, I’m still tempted to try FFXIV since I love FF series since childhood, but the entire thing lost the turn-based thing and the feeling that I had in the past.
Liking a game is subjective. Even more when the game is going through a lot of changes. It’s a fact that they are hiring more people and changing designs of the game. At least for now I’d recommend you to keep an eye for the changes that are coming in the next weeks/months. I won’t say they will magically add more content or change the entire gameplay, but for sure it will one step into making things a bit better and (I hope) less 1-shot fest in PvP and PvE.