Was thinking of making a paladin that is similar to WoW where u have some support skills, as many life saving panic buttons, tanky prolong substantial dps.
Here the link to my build
In terms of stats i was thinking i need to get str con int sprit. Thats alot of points i need to spread out so i was thinking of something like this ratio 3str:2con:1int:1spr. Is this suicidal? Or possible with the right items?
int… 
put dex instead of int, perhaps? I understand you wanna heal with some int, tho. You already have restoration which is rad so maybe you could just upgrade Aspersion to lvl 10 for even more def.
he can get the DEX via monstrance, but it seems his build doesnt have it
Will 1 point in mons make that much a difference? I was thinking of grabbing some dex from gear.
Monstrance gives like 10% (or 30%?) more dex no matter how high the level is. Leveling it only strengthens the debuff–seems cool to me, @paulbohphoto. 
But since my dex stats is low. It won’t increase much still?
Lmao yeah it won’t. Anw I totally recommend getting lvl 10 aspersion. However IF you still want int then I hope this is intended for PVE (you know, just for fun) for it’s gonna be “difficult” in PVP without pumping dex…
Well i don’t plan to pvp much with a paladin. Hehhe even if i did i wont aim to kill. More likely be a harass/tank/bait/support. Anyway i added 1 point in monst from ress and maybe i will get some dex from bonus points or gear. Or maybe spread my stats even thinner with 3str:2con:1int:1spr:1dex. Lol and hope i can get the other stats from gear
Paladins might look tanky but really they come from the clergy tree which means they are basically squishy tbh. Con helps but don’t expect to be as sturdy as Peltastas.
To me, they’re ToS’s version of antimage “tanks.” They have Resist Element and Barrier so I like to go all out and pump more spr instead of con. Con is important af but, let’s face it, Paladins aren’t beefy to begin with.
Since it’s all about you, beefy Pals rely on Aspersion to get more muscle so it suits your 2-con build. Instead of healing with Mass Heal, heal with… well… Heal. You can keep the int OR give in and follow every other cookie-cutter build out there (str).
Well i dont mind adding more points into aspiration. Is ress a combat ress spell? Meaning can i cast it while in combat mode or it is like WoW where i have to be out of combat to res?
You can ress people anytime you want.
Well then faster cast speed for ress is going to be useful if the healer suck or the dps screwed up. Anyway my build isnt a main tank nor main anything. Its just a support of all types.
I am sure there some1 going cleric c3 priest c3 with all the buff spells max out so it kind of pointless for me to try and compete with that. I guess my buff are just for small incomplete group/skirmish or for self