This is what happened to me in a dungeon today. I got invited to a semi-standard party consisting of 3 dps, 1 healer, and 1 swashbuckler. Unfortunately, the healer did not have priest c3 so relying on stoneskin is out of the question. And the swashbuckler only had pelt c1. However, I can work with that.
Here is the problem, almost immediately into the dungeon, I was told to stop using my cc because it breaks certain spells. Since peltasta c1 cannot hold hate against an elementalist using his spells efficiently, I now have to take the brunt of the onslaught whenever I cast and cannot use my cc. And the healer prefers to safety wall the tank instead of the one getting most of the aggro, so this makes it even more dangerous.
So I either had to just stand there and take damage like a ragged doll or kite the mobs around like a headless chicken. Should I have just auto-attacked until monsters took considerable amounts of damage before casting anything? How should I have handled this situation?