you can get all that data in the thread that @Vivie has linked here.
Quick response:
Your build is fine, as long as you like it.
It does not matter a whole lot what your ranks are pre monk.
I personally like Diev2 or diev1 builds, but that is 100% personal preference.
as far as gears go. You want to get yourself a two-handed mace at 270+ prior to that use whatever you have. It does not matter a whole lot at the begining, just get yourself good pardoner buff for +2000 damage a hit and be on your way to success.
Once you get comfortable, you might want to consider farming sissels and max petamion, since they are pretty much the only down to earth option you have, everything else takes too much to farm, so this should get you a good start.
Stat wise what you have is fine. you have two options from the point you are on:
- you have a lot of money : go into DEX (considering that you are priest, moonstrance benefits you more with more dex)
- you don’t have a lot of money : go to STR
simple as that.
with the rank 9, you should consider this three options after monk3:
zealot2. inquis2, zealot1-inq1 all three have pros and cons, which I am not going to get into, since not all the information is available to us yet.