@Garrnett @breno_santanna @final_sonja I think you guys are all right in what you said. Its good to see people with similar ideas.
@Randy I am sorry to hear that you had that experience. I wish I had gone to high school with you so that I could have helped you out.Thank you for sharing.
The most important thing in the world is life,while everything else is only small matters.
They’re stupid?
Seriuosly, this question is rather weird.
People who cant fend of a bit bullying or cyberbullying are not strong enough for society.
It’s eat or be eaten.
But even if your about to be eaten.
Think, Act and react.
Why care if someone is bullying you?
Theres a few more billion people out there, you can befriend.
I was bullyed myself and surived it.
Anyone so weak of mind that they commit suicide are just takeing the least resitance out of it.
Kids and wannabe adults these days, get worse and worse in their mindset.
So what if they bully you.
Fight back at them.
Most times its just group tactics, make out a weak one and disperse the group trough inner conflicts.
Worked well for me.
More often than not, it’s not just the bullying that makes most of these people ending their own lives. You never know enough about a person’s life to pass judge whether they are weak or not in this kind of situation.
For example, someone with a really dysfunctional family may develop many negative personality traits (insecurity for example) which lead to them being easy targets for bullies, then those people use the Internet as a way to escape but end up being targeted there too. They basically feel being abandoned by life, by everyone, even the ones who are supposed to be the closest to them, that feeling ain’t no joke, I believe even the strongest of strong will find it hard to keep their balance in such a situation. The cyber bullying may as well just be the last drop that makes the water overflow. You may hear from somewhere about the cyberbullying but do you know about their family situation? And if you never had to go through life with their problems, how can you judge?
Also it depends on how strong a person sensitivity is, some people are easy to get hurt, you can call them weak but those people can also be capable of great empathy in the right situations and do great things. A coward or a hero, it depends on whether if you are at the right place at the right time or not.
A man who killed himself after breaking up with his girlfriend may be a weakling to many, but because he fears of losing his love more than losing his life that he is also capable of sacrificing his very life to save his loved one. I won’t call him a hero for saving his love but I can’t judge him of killing himself.
Another thing is, bearing pain in loneliness multiplies that pain many times. In pain, whether you can find a family member, a friend, someone to be by your side or not, even for just for a little can be something that saves or destroys you. Many of you take it for granted that you have someone to show their caring and kindness to you that you forget there are many who didn’t get to have such blessing.
Sometime, a simple caring world or a mindless hate, judgemental word can destroy or save a human. To me, the ones who are weak are the ones who don’t understand this, the ones who are so easy to judge others. Weaklings are not the ones who get hurt, it’s the ones who do the hurting.
They’re not weak or stupid. They have their own reason and we have no right to judge them especially when we’re not even know them in a person. Moreover it possible that there’s something more than just a bullied alone. Because the cause of suicide is a multiple reason. It could be stress factor and mental disorder such as depression, bipolar disorder, schizophrenia, borderline personality disorder, alcoholism, or drug abuse. All of these illness are treatable.
Sadly many people still not yet understanding even their own parents. Some thought they’re weak, stupid or just an attention seeker. Instead these people who are at risk of suicide always giving out a warning signs. If you understand and notice it, Instead of saying to them to be stronger and get over it, You can offer them a hope and help. Even if you’re not a mental health professional but with just a listen to them and their problem that’d be more than enough.
Yes, suicide is a weakness, that’s just a fact.
Bro you my hero. you just be going to different posts ending people.
Hmm. i think its sad that people treat others like that. I would always get bullied in school but i was funny and would beat someones ass so i wasn’t really trippin cuz they wouldnt say nothing to my face. But idk you don’t have to stay there and be cyber bullied, like close your eyes and don’t look at the screen or something.
EXACTLY Lmao
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I feel that there should be less talk about it and more action.
There was a fat guy in my school getting bullied, not to brag I would always protect him if possible. W
Which could not be said about everybody else…
PPL love to TALK big , but when it comes to HELPING someone they just put on their outraged faces and circle on the outskirts of the problem.
Later on in life I’ve changed my country of residence I experienced bullying based on my nationality. I was held at knife point once. Suicide you ask?
If someone takes their life they are probably at a point where it’s a blessing for them.
IT’s not that simple, there’s ppl like this hacker called “4chan” he can make your life very impossibru.
Tough issue to discuss really without knowing all of the possible problems that may be affecting the person in question. The difficulty is that in real life bullying some people can’t escape from whatever place the harassment is taking place. Cyber bullying is a little simpler in that you can most times just leave and not pay attention to the people harassing you. Simply walking away in this case is usually the surefire way of not having to deal with this issue.
Now this is where I say that there might be extenuating circumstances. For someone being abused and harassed in real life there might be people who use their online lives to garner relief from real life and are much more strongly influenced by cyber bullying. I don’t think it makes them weak if they killed themselves if there was indeed enough pressure to cause them these issues. No one can really cast judgement unless they personally know everything that is going on in the harassed persons life. I don’t think people who commit suicide from cyber bullying are only being bullied on the internet solely without some other kind of factor influencing their decision to end their lives.
Just my two cents.
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No, they’re not brave or strong in their own way, it’s not a strength to commit suicide, that’s very regressive thinking.
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Just buy a dog, dumpass
The issue isn’t that cyber bullying primarily takes place on the computer, rather that bullying that is occurring in real life continues after school hours on the internet. This is a huge issue, because a lot of older adults (it’s weird to make that distinction since I am an adult but I had internet when I was in my tweens) can legitimately think that “bullying adds character” because they have not experienced cyber bullying. Everyone needs a safe haven to get away from people, let alone people who are bullying them. It’s inappropriate to apply “survival of the fittest” to this scenario because that is not what survival of the fittest even refers to.
