Do you think that person was weak?
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Hmm, yes.
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Noone should kill themsleves. CUZ I LOVE THEM ALL ! <3
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They must have been overwhelmed by the bullying to say goodbye to the world way too early. It should be prevented at all cost since suicide isn’t a one way ticket to happiness, not to mention that it’s deemed sinful in some beliefs.
With cyberbullying and bullying there is a big difference and then sometimes no difference at all. It is never good when a life is taken due to cruel nature. I do not believe it makes that individual weak. I do find people to be weak when they try to escape from their problems, but its always circumstantial that I come to that conclusion. Especially through death. In terms of bullying, its not their life that has led them to end it, but the fact of people pushing them towards it. Even if an individual is strong, their strength may not hold up to it. I think we need to help those people in their weak moments by offering help or showing them that their is help available. There is always strength in numbers and great strength found in hope. An it takes just one person to be that beacon of hope.
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I don’t think they ar weak , most of them are stronger than a lot of people and some are just not strong enough.
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I’ve experienced a bad scenario personally, @Saber. I was bullied for having a pizza face way back in high school. Those “friends” would suggest me folk remedies to zap zits in a not-so-supportive manner. I always hate unsolicited acne advice. How did I feel? Terrible, like my life was what. Did I ever have a brain wave to commit suicide? Uhh frankly I never had such an idea but you’re spot on about the big fat bully who makes the victim miserable. That guy should be bullied by a much bigger guy to see that this is an endless circle. Can’t we just make pasta not wars?
It’s a permanent solution to a daily struggle; no matter how temporary the problem is, it breaks you down no matter how strong you are. You can be the most emotionally and spiritually strong person but being bullied daily will bring you down.
Bullying doesn’t just happen to children; it happens to adults as well in the workplace as well and they can’t escape from it.
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I feel sadness for the person involved when I read that it’s happened [I like to read about odd deaths].What kind of person has nothing better to do with their time than to make someone feel so awful and miserable of an existence,that they choose to end their life? People always say that they should have toughened up,but I think the people close to the victim should have acted when they saw signs things weren’t right.Sometimes bullies like to get a stir out of people,so reacting may just make it worse.People like that need help from loved ones,not left to fend for themselves.
As far as the effects of it,I actually agree with some that those bullies should be charged with a crime.You always end up seeing that nothing happens to them,and just hope and expect it to get better.Why would it when we don’t punish those responsible? I can’t imagine how the victim’s family feels seeing them continue to live as if nothing happened at all.
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@Garrnett @breno_santanna @final_sonja I think you guys are all right in what you said. Its good to see people with similar ideas.
@Randy I am sorry to hear that you had that experience. I wish I had gone to high school with you so that I could have helped you out.Thank you for sharing.
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The most important thing in the world is life,while everything else is only small matters.
They’re stupid?
Seriuosly, this question is rather weird.
People who cant fend of a bit bullying or cyberbullying are not strong enough for society.
It’s eat or be eaten.
But even if your about to be eaten.
Think, Act and react.
Why care if someone is bullying you?
Theres a few more billion people out there, you can befriend.
I was bullyed myself and surived it.
Anyone so weak of mind that they commit suicide are just takeing the least resitance out of it.
Kids and wannabe adults these days, get worse and worse in their mindset.
So what if they bully you.
Fight back at them.
Most times its just group tactics, make out a weak one and disperse the group trough inner conflicts.
Worked well for me.
More often than not, it’s not just the bullying that makes most of these people ending their own lives. You never know enough about a person’s life to pass judge whether they are weak or not in this kind of situation.
For example, someone with a really dysfunctional family may develop many negative personality traits (insecurity for example) which lead to them being easy targets for bullies, then those people use the Internet as a way to escape but end up being targeted there too. They basically feel being abandoned by life, by everyone, even the ones who are supposed to be the closest to them, that feeling ain’t no joke, I believe even the strongest of strong will find it hard to keep their balance in such a situation. The cyber bullying may as well just be the last drop that makes the water overflow. You may hear from somewhere about the cyberbullying but do you know about their family situation? And if you never had to go through life with their problems, how can you judge?
Also it depends on how strong a person sensitivity is, some people are easy to get hurt, you can call them weak but those people can also be capable of great empathy in the right situations and do great things. A coward or a hero, it depends on whether if you are at the right place at the right time or not.
A man who killed himself after breaking up with his girlfriend may be a weakling to many, but because he fears of losing his love more than losing his life that he is also capable of sacrificing his very life to save his loved one. I won’t call him a hero for saving his love but I can’t judge him of killing himself.
Another thing is, bearing pain in loneliness multiplies that pain many times. In pain, whether you can find a family member, a friend, someone to be by your side or not, even for just for a little can be something that saves or destroys you. Many of you take it for granted that you have someone to show their caring and kindness to you that you forget there are many who didn’t get to have such blessing.
Sometime, a simple caring world or a mindless hate, judgemental word can destroy or save a human. To me, the ones who are weak are the ones who don’t understand this, the ones who are so easy to judge others. Weaklings are not the ones who get hurt, it’s the ones who do the hurting.
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They’re not weak or stupid. They have their own reason and we have no right to judge them especially when we’re not even know them in a person. Moreover it possible that there’s something more than just a bullied alone. Because the cause of suicide is a multiple reason. It could be stress factor and mental disorder such as depression, bipolar disorder, schizophrenia, borderline personality disorder, alcoholism, or drug abuse. All of these illness are treatable.
Sadly many people still not yet understanding even their own parents. Some thought they’re weak, stupid or just an attention seeker. Instead these people who are at risk of suicide always giving out a warning signs. If you understand and notice it, Instead of saying to them to be stronger and get over it, You can offer them a hope and help. Even if you’re not a mental health professional but with just a listen to them and their problem that’d be more than enough.
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Yes, suicide is a weakness, that’s just a fact.
Bro you my hero. you just be going to different posts ending people.
Hmm. i think its sad that people treat others like that. I would always get bullied in school but i was funny and would beat someones ass so i wasn’t really trippin cuz they wouldnt say nothing to my face. But idk you don’t have to stay there and be cyber bullied, like close your eyes and don’t look at the screen or something.
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